From "Weakness" to Strength: The Art of Personal Alchemy
For a long time, we were led to believe that we had to correct ourselves: be less sensitive, less intense, less emotional... less "too much." In that attempt to fit in, many people learned to reject themselves. But here's a game-changing truth: Your weakness is not a mistake, it's misdirected energy. Weakness is power without direction Nothing about you is superfluous. What you call "weakness" is often a valuable quality taken to the extreme due to a lack of restraint or bou
Fabiola Passariello
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Deserving: The inner permission to receive what is already possible
Many people work hard. They give a lot. They support others. They push themselves beyond what's necessary. And yet, when it's time to receive, something inside them shuts down. It's not because they don't deserve it... it's because they aren't allowed to. That's what we call deserving. What is merit, really? Merit is not something that is earned , nor a reward for behaving well, nor the result of sacrifice. Deserving is an internal permission. It is the capacity to feel, w
Fabiola Passariello
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You can't let go of what you're still tolerating.
Many people say they want to let go: relationships, situations, or patterns that no longer serve them. But there's an uncomfortable truth that's rarely faced head-on: You can't let go of what you're still tolerating. Tolerance is not love We were taught that to love is to endure, that being a good person is to adapt, and that setting boundaries is selfish. And it's not. Tolerating what drains you is not love; it's disconnection from yourself . Every time you tolerate somethi
Fabiola Passariello
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