Decide: Because not deciding is also a decision
Many people say they are confused, that they don't know what to do, or that they need more time. But there is a truth that sets you free when you understand it: Not deciding is also a decision. The difference is that, when you don't decide, you hand over the reins of your life to inertia, fear, or others. Deciding is not about being sure, it's about being present We were taught that we have to be 100% sure before choosing. The reality is that the decision doesn't come from ab
Fabiola Passariello
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From "Weakness" to Strength: The Art of Personal Alchemy
For a long time, we were led to believe that we had to correct ourselves: be less sensitive, less intense, less emotional... less "too much." In that attempt to fit in, many people learned to reject themselves. But here's a game-changing truth: Your weakness is not a mistake, it's misdirected energy. Weakness is power without direction Nothing about you is superfluous. What you call "weakness" is often a valuable quality taken to the extreme due to a lack of restraint or bou
Fabiola Passariello
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Deserving: The inner permission to receive what is already possible
Many people work hard. They give a lot. They support others. They push themselves beyond what's necessary. And yet, when it's time to receive, something inside them shuts down. It's not because they don't deserve it... it's because they aren't allowed to. That's what we call deserving. What is merit, really? Merit is not something that is earned , nor a reward for behaving well, nor the result of sacrifice. Deserving is an internal permission. It is the capacity to feel, w
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